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Is there anyone out there who has had an experience similar to mine? I have had sex with 2 different men who didn't tell me they had a sexually transmitted disease. I now have warts and herpes. The warts have not came back after treatment, approx. 7 years. The herpes? Have had for 'bout 20 years, incurable. I have SSSOooo many hang-ups starting new relationships that they have become non-existant. Not looking for pitty; I am just a human with issues and being upfront about it. Those are my circumstances. It is horifying enough to be upfront about my circumstances, deal with the reactions, and be "alright" with it all. What am I seeking in a man? I am seeking a man who can "see outside the box". (But..."outside your box" I see them warts) I am 39 years of age, but look younger. I am always guessed at being in my 20's. I love sports, camping, fishing, and will go hunting, although I do not shoot. I also enjoy bowling, auto races and just relaxing at home with a movie, popcorn and having that special someone to cuddle with. I do have infrequent herpes where it only has to be dealt with maybe 4-6 DAYS out of the year. I have had it for 20 years and in the relationships I have had, I have not transmitted it. Why??? Because I am honest and a caring woman who does communicate! Hey, during that time.. I know how to still make you smile! :)
"Herpes encumbered -- otherwise blessed! (and yes, very honest)" About me and who I'd like to meet Thats a tough one! I guess adjectives are as good a start as anything. ME: kind, compassionate, honest, moral, sensual, creative, goofy, spiritual, passionate, head strong, intelligent........... LIKES: woods, kids, camping, starry nights, the brown crust on a roasted marshmallow, cheap sweet wine and a long hot bath, a good book, good common sense, Home Depot, outdoor projects, doing the "mom thing", not keeping up with the Joneses, privacy, touch, mud puddles....... DISLIKES: Situational ethics, hard core politics, shopping malls, drinking and drugs, routine boredom, dishes........ I like to judge from the inside out! I refuse to define that "perfect" man! I've been pleasantly surprised at the variety of wonderful men I have found myself attracted to by not limiting myself! (herpes positive is always an attribute in my book -- and yes, that means I have it) If I were to try to define qualities I guess it would be fair to say I am looking for someone honest, moral, financially responsible, emotionally available, and most of all ....Christian! (all buzz words open to our own reality I know!) (Situational Ethics, according to Fletcher's model, states that decision-making should be based upon the circumstances of a particular situation, and not upon fixed Law. The only absolute is Love. Love should be the motive behind every decision...Well, I've read your profile and, realizing that Love is the only absolute, I've come back with my decision: I loathe you) I'm good company, can hang out with the best of them and can be persuaded to get off my butt and do more than hang, like a hike or a dance, that physical kind of stuff. I'm tall, blonde, attractive and slim. Calm, relaxed, friendly and not a difficult personality. Lazy but not immobile. A food fiend. I love good flavors that make an appearance, make you think 'hmmm, what is that?' and I love a good blast of flavor that make you say 'alright! Garlic!' Ah, reality. One of my flaws. I have herpes. It's not my most obvious flaw, but the one that needs to be revealed first. (The best time to bring up herpes is after describing how much you love "good flavors" that "make an appearance") I am really into old rock&roll,jazz, blues. I really like taking walks with someone. Staying at home just us two watching movies or sports. I have a house and want someone to share with me. Oh bye the way I have herp. I would like someone that has hair,thinningis ok. No smoker please. I want someone that will holded my hand when we takes walks togeter. I need someone that I can tell anything to courage me give me confidents in me. I want to smile,laugh again. (I could tell by the way he holded my hand he had the herp) I work a lot so I don't have time for games. (Honesty is the key with me.) Look Ladys, I like moon light walks on the beach & romantic candle light dinners as much as you do, but... I am a MAN all the way! (That means I have a veracious sexual appetite!!! So... If you can't deal with that reality, please keep looking.) I would like to meet some body that is as tired as I am of the dating thing & is willing to make a go of some sort of lifes partenership. (living together.) I have a couple of down sides that seem small to me, but often have been the demise of a few good relationship in the past, So... lets get those up front right away.(I do not drive & I have genitel herpes.) O.K. If you are not scared off yet we are off to a good start! (Scared off? No way. You had me at "I work a lot so I don't have time for games. (Honesty is the key with me.) Look Ladys, I like moon light walks on the beach & romantic candle light dinners as much as you do, but... I am a MAN all the way! (That means I have a veracious sexual appetite!!! So... If you can't deal with that reality, please keep looking.) I would like to meet some body that is as tired as I am of the dating thing & is willing to make a go of some sort of lifes partenership. (living together.) I have a couple of down sides that seem small to me, but often have been the demise of a few good relationship in the past, So... lets get those up front right away.(I do not drive & I have genitel herpes.) O.K. If you are not scared off yet we are off to a good start!") With any luck at all, you'll be HWP. If your feet dont get wet in the shower, we are not right for one another. If your closet has skeletons, cool beans for you. Thats where they belong. If you have herpes like I do, we'll get along just fine... if you dont, you will need to be very understanding. I put this part in the part on the first page because it is easy enough for most to miss this part, not knowing it is even viewable. so if you are reading this, you must be above average or at least, wide awake! (Look, I have wax buildup on my feet, get over it) Professional, stable, average looking, average shape, educated, casual, nuturing, independent, no baggage, living a simple life. New to herpes. Start with a photo exchange. Seeking the same in a woman. (New to herpes? Then start with a photo exchange!) I've got tattoos covering my chest, back, and arms (which is how I contracted hepatitis C). (I've also got genital herpes.) Although I've spent most of my life in youth and adult prisons, I accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior this past 8/20/03 just prior to my most recent release from prison - go figure! Anyway... (Anyhoo...) I like to have fun and do things out of the ordinary like go swimming at 2 am or eat a peach for hours.Im also funny and will go out of my way to make you laugh I do have photo's of me if interested just ask away. Im looking for a woman that has herpes or has the courage to get through it with me Im not very picky just A happy go lucky guy. (For hours on end, he nursed that peach, savored it, let the juices run down his neck. With reckless, citrus abandon he slowly rubbed the succulent fruit up and over his bulging...Larry and David say hello) I have no criminal record (since fleeing to Argentina and having my name legally changed) Also no genital herpes (those people in the herpes commercials look so happy, considering that they have disgusting warts on their pee-pees!) Career until recently was on the air in Chicago radio for 12 years..Now I do voice-overs ("From Paramount Pictures: In a world, with numnuts...") My roommate says the reason that I am not getting many (excuse me) any responses is not so much that my profile sucks but that black men just aren?t in season yet? so while I wait to get in season again I guess I should tell you a little about myself. Well the best way I can think of to describe myself is first and foremost I am a people person. I like to meet new active and happy people. I have been known to cause people to giggle once or twice in my lifetime. I am a firm believer in laugher is the best medicine (it may not cure your herpgahnasyphilworts or that highly contagious high infectious rash on your butt, but it might help you forget about it for a second. (I don't think you're ready for this jelly rash) "Got Herpes? Me, too." About me and who I'd like to meet Hey, what a catchy headline huh? (What headline?) I figured it needs to be out in the open, so that it's not an issue that needs to be dealt with later. I'm down to Earth, intelligent, wicked witted & a no- nonsense woman. I'm looking for a serious relationship, not a booty call. I love animals and have cats. Please like animals yourself and I don't mean on your dinner plate :) I live in Raleigh, please live within 50 miles of me. Race isn't an issue with me. I prefer you to be between 28 and 47. And most of all be young at heart. Life is too short to get old so quickly. Do you like:comedy clubs, concerts, museums, cultural events, fairs, carnivals, the beach, camping, fishing? I like all the above and more. Being a Star Trek fan will get you extra points, lol.
"Got herpes?" About me and who I'd like to meet Petite, blond, in shape, generally happy person. Looking for a relationship with a stimulating intellectual who is as comfortable in jeans and t-shirts as he is in a tux. You gotta be able to go from the taco stand to the country club in a moments notice. I love to read and love to travel. On the weekends I can be a couch potato or pick up a camera, throw a dart at the map and head out. Hiking, camping, dancing, art, basketball, etc. Diversity and cultural awareness are key. Have you traveled or lived internationally? Let's compare notes. This herpes thing isn't holding me back, how about you?
"I have Herpes and looking for same..." About me and who I'd like to meet I am being honest and hope to find others without worrying about transmission. I am on Valtrex medication but it is still very possible to INFECT others regardless of breakouts or where the infection is located. I also cannot have children but would love to adopt. With that being said, I have my own business which involves most of my creative thought. I have a beautiful lab named Hoosier. I am very successful and love to do things by the beach. I am very close to my family and close circle of friends. I am spiritual and have read many books on inner growth. I am very down to earth and love to laugh! More about Barren McHerpherp's match: I am looking for someone that already has the HSV Herpes virus. I am looking for someone sincere, spontaneous, honest and funny!
"let's try a short get to gether at a park or a lake; if we like each other may be we can continue to next step; no" I do not need someone who is mean. Is there someone? I pray to lord everyday. I also am active with my beautiful children as time or turn permits. For the moment my spare time is taken by my daughters from their homework to PTA to shopping. I also spend time with them so they are physically fit. Excercising and cudding and playing and making sure they get a good nutritious meal! I respect ladies like "Mothers". I expect compassion from that special lady friend even if it is just one hour a month over a dinner or lunch or a stroll in the park or going fishing trip. I am very open minded, I do not have any bad habits except drinking a lots of hot tea; sometimes it may be bothering to you. I am very hygenic and clean. If you have any confidential disease, let's not waste our time. I do not have time to deal with that. (I respect you like a "Mother Fucker") I love cocooning at home to dabble in painting, photography, and writing. I have lived abroad and follow international news and politics; read good fiction as well as mysteries, sci- fi, and most anything spiritual, though I am more interested in questions than dogmatic answers. Raised Catholic, sampled Buddhism, now an active volunteer in a church that honors all religious traditions. On good terms with my ex and grown children. INTJ, confirmed morning person, 61, 5 ft. 7 in., 135 lbs. A considerate smoker, and herpes dormant for several years. I am in DC and you are inside the Beltway. Together we surround ourselves with books, listen to chamber music, take walks, and enjoy dining out frequently. You are a good talker and I am a good listener, active and sympathetic . If we are irritated with each other, we talk it out without blame or need to change each other. I will gladly analyze a chick flick with you if you don't mind me critiquing how the writer's depth got sacrificed to the director's flash.
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